Yesterday’s reflection explored the idea that if we habitually make the wrong decisions on life’s small things, these little mistakes will culminate into big mistakes with grave consequences. In the same way, if we fail to take care of our small things, we may find it challenging to handle bigger or more consequential things in life. According to traditional Chinese wisdom, one must begin with disciplining oneself, then the family, before managing a country and conquering the world. Discipline must begin with the smallest details before working up to larger things. Jesus affirmed in the Gospel of John, Chapter 14, verse 12,
“Very truly, I tell you, the one who believes in me will also do the works that I do and, in fact, will do greater works than these, because I am going to the Father.”
If we are willing to follow Jesus’ call to serve God, we must begin with accomplishing the smallest things faithfully.
God’s will is present in all of our life’s decisions, whether the major or minor ones. God forges us by beginning with small things, hoping that we will learn to listen to His voice in everything we do, and to trust and follow His will, so that we may fulfil our mission that He has bestowed on us.
Therefore, do not neglect these “duties of the moment”. The “greater works” are often the culmination of all these “duties of the moment”! When we ignore these duties, we are also choosing to ignore God. This demonstrates what Jesus described as being
“faithful in a very little thing.”
As the Chinese saying goes, “a day’s plan begins in the morning”! This saying is, indeed, full of wisdom. If we begin our work of collaboration with God, right at the crack of dawn, and endeavour to accomplish everything that God wants to accomplish through us, His grace and strength will overflow our lives right at the beginning of the day. In this way, we will be empowered and encouraged to fulfil life’s great and small demands and overcome all challenges. In addition to tangible rewards, we can be assured that God will grant us inner peace and joy if we follow His will in every decision we make. We will also feel fulfilled with our right decisions and celebrate a life that is wonderful and meaningful. On the contrary, as we make a wrong decision, it will begin to lead us astray from the path that God has planned for us and wanted us to follow; thus, sabotaging His original “plan” for us that day.
One wrong choice can disadvantage us in making subsequent decisions; compromising our ability to make the right choice at the next crossroad.
Since life’s small details are intricately connected, even one small decision can produce domino effects that are far and wide. Therefore, we must never neglect life’s minor decisions. At times, one wrong decision can completely change the course of our next day.
Experts point out that our first decision of the day, that is, whether we get up or hit snooze, has much impact on our activities on the day. By the same token, our last decision of the day, that is, when we go to bed, directly impacts our activities on the next day.
From a different perspective, our decisions often, directly or indirectly, affect those around us.
God desires each one of us to become a conduit of His love for others. Our every single decision can have an immediate impact on our ability to be God’s channel to convey His grace to whom we serve.
For instance, when we choose to say kind words to another person, we are also bringing tremendous benefits to him/her. Believe it or not, one kind word can save lives. The better option is always choosing kind words over hurtful words in our interactions with others; indeed, this is more akin to God’s Holy will.
If we persevere in making the right choices, we will be able to establish appropriate and decent everyday habits. Gradually, this will have a positive impact on our lifestyle. Over time, our character traits and life will also be transformed, making it easier for us to bear good fruits a hundredfold. Such is the hope of our Lord Jesus Christ for us: to bear good fruits as He lives in us. This is also the greatest distinction between Jesus Christ, the Good Shepherd, and our common enemy!
In the Gospel of John, Chapter 10, Verse 10, Jesus said,
“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.”
Reflection
How do you make decisions in life’s “small things”? Have you been hasty about them? Have you experienced any negative consequences because of making a wrong choice?
At the end of this reflection, can you feel God’s tender loving care and see His plans for you?
Among the finer details in your life, where can you begin to better equip yourself so that you may receive the “greater works” that God has prepared for you?
Today’s Prayer
Almighty and compassionate Father, thank you for patiently revealing Your plan for me so that I may understand Your will and hope for me more clearly. Father, I am willing! I want to know Your will intimately. I want to respond to Your invitation in every single detail in my life, and to faithfully fulfil Your mission for me. I am not going to neglect the minor decisions in my life but am determined to seek Your presence in each, and to closely collaborate with You in order to fulfil all the good things that You want to accomplish through me. I now freely offer my whole life as a pleasing sacrifice to You. Lord, may it be done to me according to Your word (Luke 1:38). For this I pray in the Holy Name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit. As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

耶穌在福音中也曾這樣教導我們:一天的苦足夠一天受的了。(瑪6:34)這正好提醒我們不要為每天生活的憂慮而執着,反之,能善用天主賜予的每一天,活在祂的慈愛裏,這就是天主所願意看見的。
因此,「你們不可與此世同化,反而應以新的心思變化自己,為使你們能辨別什麼是天主的旨意,什麼是善事,什麼是悅樂天主的事,什麼是成全的事。」(羅12:2)這樣,我們就能辨別「善神」與「惡神」,並在祈禱中,藉聖神的引領,去活出當下的職責,就是履行天父的旨意。
主天父,願照祢的話成就於我吧
亞利路亞
願光榮歸於父,及子,及聖神,
起初如何,今日亦然,直到永遠,
亞孟🙏
主,願照祢的話成就於我罷!(路1:38),請幫助我認出我要服侍的對象🙏
主耶穌,求祢使我常常貼近祢,做出符合祢聖意的大大小小的決定,活在當下。
好好。
原來我生命中的每一個細節都會對自己的成長和同天主間的關係是這麼重要。我希望以後會更好好珍惜每一個機會行䓀, 愛主。但是, 成事與否, 都要全靠天主聖神的帶領, 和我自己的努力, 合作。主求祢助佑我。
Sometimes it’s hard to discern what mission I have as children of God. As I am a person with little faith, I fail to see the whole picture and the connections of those ‘small’ things. It may take a long time before I can understand and do what pleases God. I have experienced that if it is God’s Will, things will run according to plan with little complications. At times, when I reject His invitation for a mission, I will not be at peace and His invitation will recur until I respond positively. Open up our heart and pray and the Holy Spirit will enlighten us in seeing what God has for us.
仁慈的天父,
我要衷心感謝祢的憐憫,家父已重獲陰性,步向康復,但家母仍然需要天父的施恩。🙏🙏🙏
天主,我要向祢奉獻我每一天的生活,無論是苦是樂唯命是從。但願聖神來堅強我,不要受到世俗的誘惑而忘了初心。
慈愛的天父
猛然被敲醒,有如這宋詞所述:「眾里尋他千百度。驀然回首,那人卻在,燈火闌珊處。」時常在尋尋覓覓天主在我身上有甚麼計劃和祂的旨意是甚麼?卻原來祂透過周遭的人、事、物向我傳遞祂的想法和想要我成就的事,祢不是要我幹甚麼大事,只是在小事上忠信。心中歉疚未有覺察祢已時刻在靜默中等待我我回應和行動,求主幫助我在生活細節上作適當的安排和正確的決定,謹慎選擇優次,心無旁騖地實踐,珍惜與祢相處的機會和時間,以獲得祢的助佑。因我們的主耶穌基督。亞孟。
全能仁慈的天父, 感謝你讓我明白,我們每天的大小決定中都有稱的心意, 我願意信靠着袮, 追隨著你的旨意,用心去完成你派遣給我的每一份工作,亞孟。
讓我放心去接受每日的職責,祇要天主把我引導,意向的決定,工作多少,他有計劃在我們身上
Sometimes it’s difficult to know what God’s plan for me. I pray but I don’t get the answered but usually I will just go ahead and do it. But I believed God’s know what I am doing and he will give me the strength and guide me along.
I praise God for everything I do without waiting for his answer. Thank you God.
Jesus I trust in you
最近堂區邀請我參加“關愛小組” 是用電話去慰問獨居長者 。
修女嘅邀請我立刻回應了 !
感謝主讚美主给我這機會與主相遇 🙏主祐
【混亂中找秩序】第十八日 – 當下的職責,但英文錄音是[Finding Order in Chaos] Day 17 – The Better Choice。請更新。謝謝。
Dear Jesus, please bless every details of my life; including my daily small decisions.