There is only one goal in Jesus’ life: the object is the Father and His mission is to fulfil His Father’s will. Indeed, life is not that complicated; Christ, living for this one goal, freely lets go of all other less important things; things that are of this world.
Throughout His life, He willingly offered up the most precious things in life, including time, friendship, security, desire to be loved, dignity, and even His own life;
without any reservation, He freely handed Himself over as an offering to His Father. In the same way, God has also given Himself completely to His Son; the Father and the Son abide in each other. The Father sustains His Son’s salvific work on earth with His infinite love.
At the beginning of each day, when He is busy, before making any decisions or taking any actions, and before facing various challenges and suffering, Jesus often “sits at the feet of His Father” to converse with and listen to His Father’s words and instructions for Him. Only then, Jesus commences His work! We can certainly learn from the example set by our Lord Jesus Christ: what true service is; what a true relationship with our Father looks like; who we are in God’s eyes, and so on. Through this constant communication, we will get to know our role with more clarity, to know our Father better, to love Him more, and to have a stronger desire to serve Him and to fulfil His will. Everything falls into place without resistance or design!
Jesus our Lord is the perfect portrayal of what He has taught us in “The Lord’s Prayer”. When we pray the “Our Father”, we only need to fix our gaze on Jesus, looking down on us from the cross, to clearly understand the lesson behind this prayer.
What delights the Father is not the Son’s doing things on His own, but first building a relationship with the Father. The constant communication between the two, in turn, allows Jesus to collaborate with His Father and fulfil His Father’s will. The Son, with full confidence in His Father, knows that only His Father can see and understand everything, and that His Father will give Him the best; thus He does not need to worry about planning but only rely on God’s direction on what to do and even what to say. Jesus, fully human, understands the constraints of time and space on earth; He also recognizes that fulfilling His mission in only three years is impossible if He relies solely on His own strength. He acknowledges that what is impossible for humans is possible for God. Jesus’ success in fulfilling the arduous mission commanded by His Father is directly related to His attitude and the ways in which He serves. The key is that Jesus knows the true spirit of service!
When Martha and Mary welcome Jesus, each uses her unique ways to serve Him. From the depth of Jesus’ love for Martha, He persuades Martha to step outside of her own perspective and see things from a different lens, that is, the way that Jesus wants Martha to serve Him. It is the way Jesus welcomes the Father into His heart, to encounter His Father in solitude; listening attentively to the Father’s words and instructions before taking any actions.
Therefore, the most beautiful service is not the work itself but listening. Such is the primary condition for serving the Lord; work always proceeds from listening. Work without listening is, at best, our own “preference” that is detached from the Father.
In addition to Jesus being our role-model, teaching us the true spirit of service, God the Father Himself also teaches us how to serve Jesus His Son.
In the Gospel of Matthew, Chapter 17, Verse 5, God declares,
“This is my Son, the Beloved; with him I am well pleased; listen to him!”
Just as the Son listens to the Father, in the same way the Father wants us to listen to His Son.
Mary’s last message recorded in the Bible echoes the Father’s will. In “The Wedding of Cana”, the mother of Jesus tells the servants, “Do whatever He tells you.” (John 2:5)
In the same way, Mary fulfils the Father’s will in her life with the same attitude. Regarding everything concerning her son Jesus, she has
“treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart.”
This unique trait of Mary is fully manifested throughout her life. Sparse in words but rich in her attentiveness to God’s ways, she has completely offered herself and her will to God. Just as how angel Gabriel greets her,
“Greetings, favoured one! The Lord is with you”, she is indeed the most “blessed […] among women!”
Inspired by the Holy Spirit who lives within her, Mary also foreshadows her own blessedness in the “Magnificat”.
In the Gospel of Luke, Chapter 1, Verses 46 to 49, the Blessed Virgin Mary exclaims in the “Magnificat”,
“My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Saviour, for he has looked with favour on the lowliness of his servant. Surely, from now on all generations will call me blessed; for the Mighty One has done great things for me, and holy is his name.”
This “blessedness” is rooted in Mary’s knowledge of “true service” to God, and the Father has so richly blessed her!
Reflection
What is your attitude towards serving God and in what ways do you serve? What new inspiration has the Holy Spirit given you through this reflection?
How do these new messages inspire you to change the way you serve God?
In what areas can you learn from the examples of Lord Jesus Christ and our Mother Mary as you strive to live out the true spirit of service?
Today’s Prayer
Kind and gracious Abba Father, I now recognize my ways of serving You have been according to my will, not Yours. Thank you for reminding me of how I should serve You through this reflection. I am determined not to serve according to my preference or my desires. I completely surrender myself to You. Let me serve You with a humble heart, and learn from the examples of Jesus and Mother Mary, so that I will no longer be self-centered or rely on my own strength in all I do. From this day on, I am willing to follow Your will and to serve You and Jesus in ways that delight You! For this I pray, in the Holy Name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit. As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

慈悲的天主,
我因飲食敏感又犯罪了,請求祢赦免我的罪過,我會悔改在你腳下。🙏🙏🙏
慈愛的天父
這天的反思,讓我徹底明白到,侍奉祢是要日復日地接近祢,建立好緊密的關係,才能聽懂祢的派遣和心意,求祢使我能俯服在祢跟前,聽候祢的差遣,不要隨從我的意願和偏好,一切事上與祢合作、並尋求祢的光榮。因我們的主耶穌基督,亞孟。
因疫情不能夠回返義工,身体也要我休息,不能太勞,當感到疲倦時,便立心每日做些事,保持身体力行, 想起耶穌說过,要給我們修和道路,喜樂的人生,令我感到歡躍
主耶穌!感謝祢將祢的母親留給我們,聖母媽媽帶我們走近祢,知道祢來來是為承行天父的旨意,祢將天父啟示給我,但可惜我缺乏專注,我時常被很多無關痛癢的小事佔據了我,沒有空間去聆聽祢的話語,沒有反思祢的教導,我只有痛悔,卻沒有改過的行動。主,我求祢再給我力量,克勝自我為是的心態,我要好好學習聖母媽媽,把一切事默存心中,反覆思量,然後作出適當悅樂天父的抉擇,襄助天主子完成救贖的工程。我只需要每天開始學習真誠的奉獻自己,在思言行為上都做悅樂天主的事。主!求祢派遣聖神光照我,驅除我內心的黑暗,指引我走出陰森的幽谷,在真理、正義、道路上歸向祢!
「主耶穌的一生,是為一個目標而活,祂為了這個目標,願意放棄其他一切次要的事,為了完成天父給祂的旨意甚至願意犧牲性命。」過去的我有過很多不同的目標,換來換去,最後的結果就像伯多祿補魚一樣,辛苦了一整夜卻一無所獲,直到聽了耶穌的話向右邊撒網,終於滿載而歸。所以唯有傾聽天主、承行天主的旨意,才能夠在自己的人生有圓滿的收獲。
說得真好。真正的事奉, 不是做很多很多我們認為好, 和我們喜做的工作或服務犧牲, 而是聆聽, 然後去做天主要我們做的, 就算是我們認為很微不足道的工作, 像聖母一樣, 事事, 時時承行天主的旨意。多謝提醒, 指導。
早前筆者曾提及過,本想透過「終身執事」來還愛上主,服務教會,但卻最後告終。還記得與太太商討此事時,她毅然問了筆者這個問題:「是你自己想做,抑或真的是天主的旨意,要深思細想。」當其時並不在耳,經過神師的指導和祈禱,及後才明白,甚麼是天主的旨意,甚麼是悅樂天主的事。(羅12:2)
來到今天,靜聽了剛才的反思分享,確實當時太太的這番說話,實在是天主藉她給筆者一個提醒。是的,若不是懷謙卑和降服的心去聆聽上主的啟示,自己很容易跌入魔鬼的陷阱——自傲自大的誘惑!
主,耶穌,求祢時刻幫助我們,學習祢那謙卑的赤心,摒棄自我膨漲的心態,甘願聽命於祢!
原來聆聽比行動更為重要。一向是行動派的我,沒有耐性坐下慢慢聽,可能很多時未聽清楚已經行動了。從今以後,我要多「聆聽」主的旨意,並且對主說:願照祢的話,成就於我吧!
原來真正的事奉是完全依賴天主,聽從祂的一切話。
天主說:「這是我的愛子,我所喜悅的,你們要聽從祂!」(瑪:17:5)
耶穌說:「誰若愛我,必遵守我的話,我父也必愛他們。。。。」(若14:23)
瑪利亞說:「祂無論吩咐你們什麼,你們就作什麼」(若2:5)
撒上3:10「。。。請上主發言,祢的僕人在此靜聽。」
自己喜歡的事和天主想我做的事,有時真是風馬牛不相及,感謝天主讓我學習聖依納爵靈修,多省察去發現及分辨。我仍學習,與大家一起共勉!
I used to try to keep the Ten Commandments and attend Mass regularly. But today after listening to this retreat, i learnt from what Virgin Mary said, “Do whatever He tells you”.
From Jesus and Virgin Mary, i learn from themthe spirit of obedience, piety, forgiveness, love and silence.